To say that our cultural consciousness on matters of gender identity is rapidly evolving is an understatement. In a few short years, our awareness as a culture went from practically none to a kind of âhow could you not know that?â state. Let me give you a quick illustration.
For many years, I had the privilege of working in a campus ministry context. The community I served was a community of students committed to sharing the radical, all-inclusive love of God with a broken world through acts of worship, devotion, service, hospitality, and especially social justice. Of the religious communities on campus, aside from the Unitarians, they were by far the most progressive.
Once, at a student leadership meeting in 2010, one of the students made an announcement about the menâs group breakfast the following weekend. âSo, if you like Canadian bacon and donât have a uterus, youâre welcome to come.â In three yearsâ time, in that same communityâa community that would invite âall female and female-identifying personsâ to attend women’s group meetingsâthis comment would have been viewed as terribly transphobic. But in 2010, no one even batted an eyeâin the most progressive and social justice-conscious religious community on a very liberal campus.
The speed of this change means that a lot of people are still catching up to the understandings of gender and how it differs from sex and biology. But it also means that even for well-meaning older folks, there are different obstacles that are hard to eradicate in quick order.
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